Dale Cain

WELL HON CAT IS COMING TO SEE US AGAIN THIS WEEKEND AND WE WILL BE TALKING BOUT YOU AND THINKING BOUT YOU MORE THAN USUAL SO KEEP COOL AND JUST LISTEN TO ALL WE SAY AS WE ARE JUST MISSING YOU VERY MUCH., LOVE YOU AND KEEP A SPOT OPEN NEXT TO YOU FOR US. AND KEEP THE LIGHT BURNING TILL WE GET THERE WELL DARLIN THEY GOT THIS FIXED AND WE SURE MISS YOU WITH THE GRASS AND WEATHER AND ALL NOW MARY IS HERE AND WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN HERE SO ALL IS OK HERE LOVE YOU HONEY AND SURE WISH YOU WERE HERE SAVE A PLACE FOR US AND KEEP THE LIGHT GLOWING. RIP LOVE YOU GOOD MORNING DARLIN WE ARE GETTING READY TO TAKE CAT TO BUS FOR HOME. SURE WISH WE COULD KEEP HER HERE WITH US BUT I WISH THAT BOUT YOU TOO. BUT YOUR IN OUR HEARTS AND SHE IS TOO WHEN NOT HERE WITH US. LOVE YOU HAD GREAT DAY YESTERDAY BUT WAS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU. MARY AND JERRY NEVER SHOWED UP BUT WE DID NOT EXPECT THAT BUT I GUESS YOU KNOW WHY. YOU SEE MORE THAN WE CAN. KEEP ELMER AND BUTCH AND RED DOG BUSY UP THERE TILL WE GET THERE. LOVE YOU LOTS AND MISS YOU EVEN MORE. DA;LE HERE I SAT DRUNK AGAIN THINKING OF YOU.ALLGOOD BROTHER WE WENT TO DRUNKING MONKEY THANKS FOR THE GOOD TIME AS ALWAYS, I HAVE TO GO HOME TOMORROW BUT I WILL BE WITH YOU ALWAYS, KEEP THE LAWN CHAIRS FIXED BOBBY,PAULINE AND MYSELF WILL NEED ONE ONE DAY I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU ALOT. WELL HAD THE TOAST AND WENT TO BAR AND BEFORE THAT HAD YOUR BBQ GOT ALL THE STUFF THAT YOU WANTED DONE DANCED WITH BOB FOR YOU AND HAD TOAST TO YOU IN THE BAR TOO. HAPPY BIRTHDAY WAS GOOD FOR ALL OF US BUT LONESOME WITH OUT YOU WITH US IN PERSON EVEN THO YOU WERE THERE IN SPIRIT LOVE YOU LATER HONEY TILL WE SEE EACH OTHER UP THERE KEEP THE LIGHT ON FOR US WELL HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU AND DANNY AND MELISSA TODAY. LOVE AND MISS YOU MUCH BROTHER GETTING READY TO DO BBQ FOR TODAY AND GOT YOU A TALL BUSH LIGHT SO THAT WE CAN ALL SHARE IT WITH YOU AND ALL OF US THAT ARE HERE. FIVE O'CLOCK SOMEWHERE WILL BE THE HOUR TO TOAST TO YOU LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH WISH I KNEW HOW YOU FIXED YOUR CHILI WOULD FIX SOME OF THAT TOO. SAVE A PLACE FOR US BESIDE YOU FOR LATER WHEN WE GO. WELL HAD A GREAT STORM THAT TOOK CAT'S CANOPY DOWN AND BROKE IT BUT SHE IS OKAY WITH IT SHE PUT IT AWAY AND WILL TAKE IT BACK WITH HER TO LITTLE ROCK. TOMORROW IS YOUR BIRTHDAY AND YOU ARE VERY MUCH MISSED WE WILL HAVE YOUR BBQ AND FIRE PIT TOMORROW AFTER NOON AND EVENING. IT WILL BE IN YOUR HONOR AS IT SHOULD BE. KEEP THE LIGHT BURNING FOR US TILL WE COME HOME TO BE WITH YOU AND BUTCH AND ELMER AND ALL THE ONES THAT HAVE GONE ON BEFORE US. WELL TONITE WAS A HARD ONE I DID THE DRIVING LIKE WE USED TO DO TO LOW WATER BRIDGE AND BIG ROCK YOUR SEAT WAS OCCUPIED BY ERNIE BUT HE WILL NEVER TAKE YOUR PLACE THERE OR IN MY HEART. LOVE YOU SO MUCH DID NOT KNOW THAT IT WOULD EFFECT ME LIKE THIS BUT IT IS NOT EASY TO SAY GOOD BYE TO YOU MORE THAN ONCE BUT I SAY I LOVE YOU LOTS AND MISS YOU ALL THE TIME, WE ALL SAID OUR LOVE YOU AND WAIT FOR US TILL IT IS OUR TIME TO GO WITH YOU. REMEMBER NO ONE WILL EVER ME MORE IN MY HEART THAN YOU AND BOB. I MISS YOU MORE EVERY DAY AND MORE TONITE THAN EVER, SATURDAY WILL BE A REMEMBRANCE DAY AND A CELEBRATION OF YOUR LIFE HERE WITH US AND THE BBQ THAT YOU USED TO DO AND THE FIREPIT AT NIGHT TOO. WE WILL BE PLAYING YOUR MUSIC AND SINGING YOUR FAVORITE SONGS AND HAVING A DRINK OF BUSH LIGHT BEER IN YOUR HONOR. YOU USED TO SAY THAT IT WAS ALWAYS FIVE OCLOCK SOMEWHERE AND THAT IS THE TIME WE WILL BE DRINKING TO YOU WITH BUSH LIGHT BEER. CATS BROTHER LEFT TODAY AND TOMORROW IS HIS BIRTHDAY AND THE ANNIVERSARY OF ELMERS DEATH SO THAT WILL BE HARD FOR HER AND PETE. BUT SHE WILL HAVE US WITH HER TOMORROW SO MAYBE WE CAN KEEP HER FROM BEING TO UPSET. LOVE YOU BROTHER AND ALWAYS WILL JUST KEEP THE LIGHT ON FOR US WHEN IT IS OUR TURN TO SEE THAT LIGHT. WELL BIG BROTHER, YOUR B DAY IS ALL MOST HERE, ASHLEY IS GETTING MARRIED ON YOUR BIRTHDAY,THAT SORT,S OF UPSET,S ME,STILL SHE HAS MY BLESSING,S I REALLY LIKE BUCK,I DONT EMEMBER IF YOU MET HIM WHEN YA,LL WAS HERE OR NOT,SHE MET HIM AFTER ROBERT DIED, I WILL BE THINKING OF YOU AS ALL WAY,S I MISS ALL OF YA,LL I WISH THERE WAS A WAY TO BRING YA,LL BACK.I MISS MOMA N,BUTCH N YOU..EVERY DAY I WISH IT WAS ME, I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW DEATH CHOSESS IT,S VICTIM,S. I HAVE BEEN TRYING SO HARD ,BUT EVERY DAY IT GET,S HARDER N HARDER,LOVE YOU ALL WAY,S BECKY C. WELL CAT IS HERE AND SEEMS VERY STRANGE THAT YOUR NOT HERE TOO. BUT YOUR IN OUR HEARTS AND HERE IN SPIRIT WE SURE DO MISS YOU MY LOVE AND BROTHER. WELL GOING TO HAVE BIG GET TOGETHER FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY AND DANNYS BIRTHDAY TOO LOVE AND WILL DRINK TO YOU THAT DAY LOVE PJ N BOB DALE HERE I SAT WITH BOB GRIPING AS ALWAYS. I MISS YOU FIXING LAWN CHAIRS AT THE CIRCLE. THANKS FOR THE ONES YOU DID FIX. GUESS WE'LL GO SEE JIM TODAY IM HERE UNTIL NEXT SUNDAY SO WILL BE THINKING ABOUT YOU AND MISSING YOU. GOT TO GO I NEVER BEEN THIS FAR BEFORE LOVE YA MY FRIEND/BROTHER HAVE A VERRY SPECIAL KIND OF LOVEI IT WILL NEVER DIE. DALE AND I HAVE HAD MANY OF YEARS OF FUN AND LOVE THAT ONLY DALE,MYSELF,BOBBY AND PAULINE WILL KNOW. IM VERRY THANKFUL I HAD DALE IN MY LIFE, DALE IS IN MY HEART FOR EVER. LOVE YOU DALE CAT WELL THE FOURTH CAME AND WENT WE SAW THE FIREWORKS AT SOUTHWEST CITY AND THEN CAME HOME AND WENT TO BED. MISSED YOU TODAY AND EVER DAY ESPECIALLY OUT IN THE YARD MOWING AND FIRE PIT AND SITTING ROUND IT. I GUESS IT WONT BE LONG AND IT WILL BE YOUR BIRTHDAY BONFIRE FOR YOU WILL MISS YOU EVEN MORE THAN THE DAY BEFORE. LOVE AND HUGS AND HOPE THAT YOU AND RED ARE HAVING FUN WITH THE WHITE RABBIT. TILL NEXT TIME LOVE YOU BROTHER AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH OH CAT WILL BE HERE IN FEW DAYS AND WE ARE GOING TO LOW WATER BRIDGE AND THE BIG ROCK ON THE RIVER FOR YOU. LOVE SIS AND BOB AND ALL HAPPY JULY 4TH BIF BROTHER, WE LOVE N,MISS YOU,, EVERY DAY.I HAVE BEEN ON CALLALL WEEKEND DRIVING AND DELIVERING BLOOD, YESTERDAY WE DELIVERED A COFFIN, IT WAS EMPTY, BUTSTILL SORT OF WEIRD. WE MISS YOU EVERY DAY. I SURE WISH I COULD CALL YOU.LITTLE SIS,BECKY C WELL BRO IT IS ALMOST YOUR BIRTHDAY AND YOU ARE STILL MISSED SO MUCH. WE DONT HAVE BON FIRES NO MORE AS YOUR NOT HERE TO SIT ROUND IT WITH US. BOB AND ERNIE SOMETIMES SIT UP NEAR THE MOTORHOME TO HAVE A BEER BUT NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU. WE MAY HAVE BONFIRE ON YOUR BIRTHDAY FOR YOU AND HAVE A DRINK TO YOU DURING IT. BUT NOT SURE YET WHAT TO DO WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH WISH YOU HAD GONE TO THE DOCTORS WHEN YOU FELT BAD MAYBE YOU WOULD STILL BE HERE. BUT GOD ONLY KNOWS THAT ONE SAVE A PLACE FOR ME UP THERE SOMEDAY I WILL BE WITH YOU AGAIN. LOVE SIS AND BOB WELL IT IS MOTHERS DAY WITHOUT YOU MARY WILL MISS YOU TODAY TOO. WE FINALLY GOT RED OUT OF HIS MISERY AND UP WITH YOU TAKE CARE OF HIM AND LOVE HIM LIKE YOU DO I KNOW HE IS HAPPY UP THERE WITH YOU RUNNING AND PLAYING LIKE YOU USED TO WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER. LOVE AND MISS YOU DALE WAIT FOR ME WILL BE THERE LATER LOVE YA SIS AND BROTHER BOB I MISS YOU MY BROTHER, NOT A DAY GOES BY, THAT I DONT THINK OF YOU, I AM GLAD YOU HAAVE RED DOG WITH YOU TO KEEP YOU COMPANY AND BE BY YOUR SIDE AS HE ALL WAY,S WAS, KNOWING HE IS GONE TO IS ANOTHER LOSS THAT HURT,S, I KNOW YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE, BUT WE WASNT READY FOR YOU TO GO YET. GIVE MOM MY LOVE AND TELL HER HAPPY MOTHER,S DAY ,I LOVE YOU. LITTLE SIS. BECKY C LOVE AND MISS YOU LOTS YOUR SMILES YOUR HUGS YOUR LAUGHTER AND YOUR WAY OF TAKING CARE OF THINGS ON THE FARM FOR US THIS IS WHAT I WISH HONEY: I wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again.. I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All i have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake, from which I'll never pa...rt. God has you in his arms.. I have you in my heart. dale miss you lots man love you and wish you were still here to get hugs from got this from my niece so thought i would add it in here for you it is very true from all of here on britton corners. love pj n bob n mary I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake, from which I'll never part. God has you in his...arms, I have you in my heart! REALLY MISSED YOU YESTERDAY OUT BY THE FIRE PIT WIND WAS BLOWING SO DID NOT HAVE FIRE BUT SET OUT AND HAD DRINKS BY IT IN FRONT OF TRAILER WITH MARY AND BOB. WE PLAYED YOUR MUSIC AND TALKED AND MOST OF IT BOUT YOU. RED WAS GOOD ATE HIS FOOD AND ROLLED ON THE GROUND LIKE HE ALWAYS DID LOVE AND MISS YOU BRO TILL WE MEET AGAIN LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU AND MOM AND ALL UP THERE THE FORGOTTEN MAN,,,,,,,AS I SAW HIM STANDING THERE, I DIDNT PAY ATTENTION, TO,ME HE WAS AN HOMELESS MAN, NOT EVEN WORTH METIONING,HIS HAIR WAS LONG,UNKEMPT AND DIRTY. HE WAS HOLDING A SIGN, SAYING WILL WORK FOR FOOD , TRYING TO FEED MY FAMILY. I PASSED HIM BY TRYING TO NOT LOOK HIS WAY, THEN I SAW HIM AS HE WAS, I STOPED TO TALK TO, AND ASK HIS NAME,, PROUDLEY, HE TOLD ME HIS NAME WAS JIM, HE FOUGHT IN A HARD WAR, CALLED VIET NAM, HIS STORY WAS SAD BUT TRUE, OUT OF WORK TRYING TO MAKE DO, OUR GROVERMENT TURNED HIM AWAY, DIDNT EVEN CARE HE LOST HIS LEG,S .I AM A MARINE ALL WAYS WILL BE PROUD OF WHO I AM, I WENT TO WAR, WAS WILLING TO GIVE MY LIFE, HOLDINGTHAT FLAG THE RED WHITE AND BLUE. I NEVERE LET HER DOWN NEVER LET HER HIT THE DIRT, MY FLAG ISMY FAMILY, I LOVE HER STILL ANDCARRY HER AROUND, NOW I AM JUST THE FORGOTTEN MAN,NOT THE MARINE, BUT I AM PROUD OF WHO IAM, JIM WHO FOUGH PROUDLEY IN VIET NAM. AS I GAVE HIM A FEW DOLLOR,S WALKING AWAY, I LOOKED BACK, SAW HIM SALUTE THE RED WHITE ANDBLUE. HIS LADY LOVE . HAPPY EASTER TO YOU. MISS YOU A LOT. LOVE BECKY C well it is bout the same as it was we still miss you so much that it hurts and we cry together. when the back door opens and you dont walk through it i miss you even more than before. but i guess that will keep happening now that your not here with us in real life but we know your still here in spirit and always will be in our hearts. bob n mary took down the cans that we collected so that we would have money for more beer and cigs, I know she does not really need them but you told us not to let her go without and that is what we are doing. she helps me out and bob and we help her out so dont worry we will always do that for you and for her. well guess i will say later and love and miss you bro hugs and kisses later gy I AM SORRY THAT I WAS NEVER THERE FOR YOU. IN MY HEART YOU ARE MY BIG BROTHER ,ONE WHO I ALL WAY,S MISSED. I AM GLAD YOU HAD OTHER PEOPLE TO CARE AND LOVE YOU. ,SORRY THAT IT WASNT ME THERE WITH YOU. I DONT KNOW IF I WILL WRITE TO YOU HERE ANYMORE, JUST KNOW YOUR IN MY HEART. BECKY C WE TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME NOW AND REMEMBER LOTS OF STUFF WE DID TOGETHER AND FOUND PICTURES THAT WE TOOK BUT YOU KNOW MARY SAID THERE IS NONE OF ME AND YOU ANY PLACE AS I WAS ALWAYS TAKING THE PICS DON'T KNOW IF ANY ONE ELSE HAS ANY OF YOU AND I OR NOT BUT I HAVE LOTS OF MEMORIES OF YOU AND ME SO THAT DOES NOT MATTER TO ME ONLY THAT YOUR NOT HERE TO MAKE MORE OF THEM, MISS YOU BRO LOVE YOU LOTS HAPPY ST PATTY'S DAY HAPPY ST.PATRICK,S DAY BRO. HOPE YOU N BUTCH N ROBERT ARE ENJOYING THE FINE LIFE, YA,LL BE SURE TO GIVE ROBERT HIS HUG FOR ME, 2 YEAR,S AGO TODAY WE BURIED HIM, IT,S BEEN REALLY HARD ON EVERYONE HERE, APRIL IS DOING OK, SHE STAY,S UPSET ALL THE TIME, I WISH WE ALL COULD JUST CALL YOU, AND SAY I LOVE YOU. MISS YOU A LOT. LITTLE SIS, BECKY C LAST NIGHT, after i signed your membory book i had another membory of you,it was year,s ago back in 74 i was pregant with carrie,i remember when butch was beat up and left for dead in a ditch to die,, i remember him being in a,coma for 28 day,s.and mom calling you home from pa, and you came , every one needed you there and you was mom,s strength , day after day as we tried not to plan for his funeral ,trying to keep him alive ,it was you who helpedmom make all those decision,s and i thank you and god every day silentley that butch lived, ,you was all ways a rock every time we needed you. , i remember happy times as well like the time we all went to jekle island and went camping, swimming fishing, i also remember when we was in ohio and we all floated down beaver creek river, even through none of us could swim course the river was low,and we could stand up any time we wanted to,i loved ohio and pa, i locked away so many membories of the past even through they haunt me every day, i know people see me smilling but i have so much sadness in,my heart,, i get threw it, most of the time alone ,i will never say good by to you,just say kisess n hugs and miss you. your little sis becky c I wish i had a lot of memborie,s of you to share with other,s, but sadley i dont.i do remember the past 6 year,s when every one started talking,i wish i knew you when you was younger.i remember you before vietnam, when you laughed all the time,and didnt drink,as much.back before dad died,was all good times for everyone.i remember how you was all ways under the hood of a car or truck tinkering,, it hurts to know that 20 years went by so fast like it was over and gone quick. i remember when you was at mom,s in ohio when i came to visit when the girl,s was young,, how you scared carrie by taking your false teeth out,, throwing water balloons at people in the alley. i know i made the right decision in being with jackie ,i know how everyone was against it, cause i was only 16, its hurt,s to know that i cant ever hear your voice again, i am glad that you had great friends and love in missourie, that you was loved by so many people,i loved you to,and i miss you ,wish things was different and i dont like god,s sense of fair play, it wasnt right to take you away like that.love n kisess becky c WE SURE MISS YOU LOVE AND SURE WOULD WANT TO SET AND TALK WITH YOU NOW, BUT I GUESS WE CAN TALK LIKE THIS JUST TO LET YOU KNOW WE LOVE AND MISS YOU. Friends are quiet Angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. AND YOU SUCH A GREAT FRIEND THAT I KNOW THERE WERE TIMES YOU NEEDED TO HAVE SOME WINGS TO KEEP YOU GOING LOVE YOU MISS YOU LOTS YOUR SIS PJ AND BRO BOB LOVE YOU DALE JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THIS ---- You don't love someone because of their looks - you love them because they sing a song that nobody but you can understand AND THIS IS SO TRUE LOVE YOU BROTHER REST IN PEACE MISS YOU MY BROTHER. LIFE IS FULL OF REGREAT,S AND JUST ONE MORE TIME, I WISH WE HAVE SPENT MORE TIME TOGETHER ,AND I DO WISH JUST ONE MORE TIME I COULD HEAR YOUR VOICE. THANK YOU FOR THE SNOW THE KIDS AND I LOVED IT. I HOPE YOU AND MOM AND BUTCH AND ROBERT ARE TALKING AND HAVING FUN. I LOVE YOU BROTHER. BECKY CARTER For God saw he was tired, And wisperd, My son, Come with me..... HEY BRO WELL WE ARE GETTING THE POTTY PUMPED TODAY SO WONT HAVE TO WORRY BOUT THAT EVEN THO YOU HAVE BEEN GONE OVER A WEEK NOW I STILL LOOK FOR YOU TO OPEN THE BACK DOOR AND COME IN TO CHAT. BOB AND MARY ARE GETTING THINGS DONE ROUND HERE THAT NEED DOING SHE IS A GREAT ASSET TO THE FAMILY BUT SURE WISH IT WAS YOU DOING IT INSTEAD OR AT LEAST WITH HER. LOVE AND HUGS BRO RIP WE LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL HAVE YOU HERE WITH US. Mary's thoughts: I'm so thankful that you came into my life. You were my savior, my best friend, and my true love. No one can or ever will replace you. I'm so sorry the Lord decided to take you home so soon, before we could fulfill the plans we made, or for you to continue to give your love, and happiness to the people in your life. Although your memories are all that we can treasure, we know your with us, always. thank you forthese precious memories, your love, your care, concern, and honesty. Thank you for loving us, until we will be together again. All our love, Mary, Red, and Taco Joyce said... Our Brother has gone home. You will be missed, it won't be the same, The Bar B Ques, Parties and Domino games. The warm summer nights with the bonfire light, your music playing loud setting the mood right. You worked hard , played hard and lived hard too. Where's my coffee? where's my beer? Come on Ya'll Pull up a chair and sit right here, The fun would get started, cuz YOU knew what to do!. I never saw you glow til Mary came along, I knew the two of you couldn't go wrong. Cause you met your mate, and knew it was fate. Nobody had a clue what was going on inside you. You never complained if you knew what was to come, You left us all feeling so numb. You will be missed all the way around, Friends, Family will miss your sweet sound. Go rest brother, now the time has come. You have left us with memories of a Brother thats gone home with all of our love. God Bless you Dale Til we all meet again. Ride with Angels Bro ((HUGGS)) February 10, 2010 4:03 PM WE USED TO PLAY DOMINOES AND I USED TO GIVE HIM A HARD TIME, BUT HE BEAT ME JUST ONE TIME. WHEN HE DID WE LAUGHED AT THAT FOR LONG TIME. I LOVED HIM LOTS AND WILL MISS HIM MUCH. DEAN BROWNING February 10, 2010 7:51 AM DALE WAS THE BEST BROTHER, FRIEND, HELPER, WORKER, THAT WE EVER KNEW. WE ALL WILL MISS HIM DEARLY WITHOUT THE CLOSENESS OF HIS LOVE AND KINDNESS. PJ N BOB